Whenever the topic of child labour is discussed anywhere, in terms of being positive as it helps the helpless children or the more often debated of being a curse on the social hierarchy in a society,what comes to my mind is the image of Tarrannum, one of the child labour that influenced my thought to a very large extent.
Tarrannum was a 14-15 year old girl that worked in one of my distant relative's place in Lucknow.My relative is an old aunt of my father and we had gone to pay her a visit two summers back.That was the first time i met Tarrannum.And what i had always seen domestic help's children as,she was so very different from them!I had always seen how full of work and annoyed did they used to be.They were mostly trying to avoid work and leave chores unfinished.You felt sympathetic and often a selfish nature among them could be noticed,though not always.But Tarrannum was so different, and that was what struck a chord in me.For her,work was like the best thing that could be given to her!Every morning she used to greet all of us a very good morning and start working on folding the bedsheets.Her constant humming was a reminder that she enjoyed what she did.And it was not as if she had no other work in her own home.She never had lunch or dinner at our place since she had to cook food at home and look after her two siblings along with her mother.I could not comprehend that how a girl her age with such load took life with such zeal!
" Bibi, aaj toh Ichha aur Tapasya ki dosti ho jayegi na!Aaj to tv pe wahi dekhungi yaad se!"-this was what Tarrannum said to me one day, when i asked her why was she hurrying up with her work in the evening.She was referring to a daily soap which she used to watch everyday.Hearing her, what struck me was the fact that how a simple thing such as tv could make her entire day so happy and merry!Life was always like a light feather for her, and her relentless nature to stay gleaming was the reason that i started adoring her so much.
The day we were leaving i asked her whether she wanted anything from me the next time i came.She said she didn't want any anything, very promptly.But i still pressed and then very excitedly she took out her Eid's suit and said that she loved the lip gloss that shimmered as it would look good with the dress.She then said,-"Aap agli baar ek choti lip gloss la dengi?"I happily said yes,and that smile in that spur lasted the entire day on her face.I really have no definite solution to ending child labour, but i cannot forget Tarrannum's smiling face that touched my heart so profoundly.It's been more that two years now and i still recall how happily Tarrannum led her life.Her one smile was enough to make her and my entire day!Child labour should not prevail but how do we help them who are perhaps in bliss in their world and feel life to be truly blessed the way it is.
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its actually very sensitive issue, and if we look at both the sides of coin than we can infer that its kinda necessary evil related to third world countries...
ReplyDeletemariyam when i asked a ngo, a few years back, who was working in the field of children's education "what's wrong with child labor specially when the child likes it and comes from a poor family" the person replied "would you want and get your child to work."absolutely not" was my reply.the bulb lit in my head.child labour is a similar argument as women in flesh trade. in the absence of options nobody likes it but has no choice so some make the best of it. however what is wrong is wrong. children should always be playing,getting educated and enjoy life.adults are the one to worry about livelihood.
ReplyDeleteAgreed Sir.
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